I’ve been having blog issues… in fact my blog has been a bit MIA ~ literally over the past couple of weeks. I finally have at least this back and am working on getting my domain garibaysoup.com back.
With that being said….
I’m making a come back with a post for Shell’s awesome Pour Your Heart Out Wednesday… because I have some major pouring to do.
I have a daughter. And I’ve always dreamed of having a daughter. I’ve had dreams for my daughter forever. Maybe her dreams will be different, and that’s fine, but until she realizes what her dreams are I will be fulfilling mine for her.
I’ve always envisioned my little girl to be a little girl, a dancer, dressed in tutus and everything like sugar and spice. I know, this just might change when she’s older, but for now she’s living my vision…. and she loves it. She loves to dance, she loves to dress up, she loves being a girl. Keep in mind I’m not like putting makeup on her and throwing her in pageants and being like toddlers and tiaras, but I’m letting her be A GIRL…… does she look like she’s suffering in this picture?
SO…. here’s where I pour it all out.
We had my in-laws stop in for a night on their way to Washington {because we are a completely awesome pit stop place to stay} and for a night on their way back home. On their way up the visit was nice…. extremely short, but whatever. Apparently spending an extra day with my kids wasn’t in their plans, but the visit on their trip back SUCKED.
There’s a lot of things that went on that I’m not going to get into right now, but one thing irritated the hell out of me. My husband’s little sister is going to be a freshmen in high school. Since she grew up with only brothers I guess her parents found it right to put her in sports all her life. Which is FINE! However…. I AM NOT DOING THIS WITH MY DAUGHTER. I REFUSE. If she comes to me and says, “Mom, I would like to play basketball.” I will support her. But I am not going to shove her in sports, and I sure as hell am not going to shove my son who doesn’t want to play sports into sports.
Well, apparently I’m unreasonable to not put Ella in sports in addition to dance classes. Um…. I’m pretty sure that she’s my kid. I’m pretty sure that I carried her for 9 months, pushed her out and get to make the decisions for her until she can make them for herself. And that’s the privilege I GET because I AM HER MOM.
So to have people enter my home and try to argue with me about this is the most IRRITATING thing in the entire world. We are not them, we will never be them. I am pretty sure that my husband and I are raising our children the way we WANT TO, and we will accept outside opinions when you are financially, emotionally and physically supporting my children… until then, please keep your opinions on what I should do with my children TO YOURSELF!
And my daughter will NEVER NEVER NEVER play softball… I would like to make that clear to my sister in law. So, you can put your daughter in softball, but mine will not be in softball.
Okay, that felt good.
That would be SO irritating. I would have a hard time keeping my mouth shut.
Your little girl is just too cute in her tutu! I have a baby girl and I see her in a tutu and in dance class when she is a little older. I agree with what your saying 100%!
I love you.
Unwelcomed opinions are the worst! I agree about not forcing your kids into sports(or anything else) they don;t like. My 12 yr. old son just isn't a sporty kid, and he has zero interest in sports so far. But, we don't want to push him. It's just not him. And that's ok!